You can really help him by repainting the sack (with him) and changing furniture around and encouraging him to begin with to sort thru her things. (Better if their in-laws contributed to this, it is area of the process that is grieving
Shanhun, I am able to know how you are feeling concerning this relationship and just why you will be wondering whether or not it has a long-lasting future.
But I do not think you will be, after all, wasting your time and effort with this specific man, since you like being with him, you state you like him, and you will also imagine spending your whole life with him. So long as the connection has those features, and it is satisfying in today’s, simply enjoy being with him. None of us knows exactly exactly exactly how a certain relationship will come out as time goes by, and also this one does not appear specially high-risk, or perhaps a bet that is bad.
It is good that this guy enjoyed his wife, and therefore their memories of her, along with his marriage, are good people. Not just does that suggest that he is perhaps maybe perhaps not saddled by lots of shame and remorse and regret and conflict that is unresolved their spouse and wedding, in addition implies that his grieving process may be significantly easier and long than it may be if it are not the way it is. Continue reading